Cat Lovers Thread

Overmind One

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I am sitting here watching Fisher eat, and I am just very angry at myself for not spotting things and trusting the single opinion of the first vet. I almost put Fisher down today, and if it weren't for the second doctor, he would be gone. I happened to look at his water fountain, and I found food debris at the bottom. That explains why he did not drink the water. The debris was the same color as my floor and the glass bowl is clear so I could not see it easily, but he could. I have put white plates below the bowls now so I can easily see if anything is in there. I scrubbed out the filters and bowls. Of course, Fisher went to the bowl and looked at me as if to say "FINALLY!", and proceeded to gulp down a bunch of water.

This shit is just sapping my emotional mana. But the bottom line is that Fisher lives, and he is eating and drinking for now. THANK YOU for being here for support!
 

Lord Ba'al

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Holy shit! This is too many ups and downs for me man, just too many. I'm glad to hear Fisher is okay again. Hope he'll live a long life still, you never know.
 

Overmind One

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Holy shit! This is too many ups and downs for me man, just too many. I'm glad to hear Fisher is okay again. Hope he'll live a long life still, you never know.

I feel guilty. :moody: I could have asked specifically for the cat specialist. She only works weekends, and she is the same doctor who has examined Siete and my other passed cat Dante and also Fisher. The other doctor has only been there for 6 months. Some vet she is, the dumb bitch. :icon_mad: If I had listened to her, my cat would be dead today and I would have been responsible. I have already chosen to go the extra mile for him, and she should have suggested the shot. It's a freakin $30.00 shot! That is nothing. And it brought Fisher back from the brink. Okay, the water fountain was my fault. But there are two fountains in my place. Anyways, both are now full of crystal clean filtered water and the filters have been cleaned in the pumps.
 

Overmind One

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Sadly, Fisher has finally taken that last turn. He is no longer eating or drinking and he is stumbling. I am here at almost 3:00am spending his last natural hours of life. I am now sorry I accepted the vet's recommendation to try the fluids and syringe feeding. It's horrible going through this and he is now bleeding a bit from the mouth and there is nothing I can do at 3:00am. I will take him first thing in the morning (7:00am) if he makes it that far. I am cuddling with him on the floor in his last hours and he is purring, but that could be from pain. He seems peaceful and content with me there with him.

I am sorry for dragging the few of you who have been following this with me. And I also thank you for the emotional and moral support. This time, it is definitely time to say goodbye. I have sent the vet an email asking for assurances that it will be done.
 

Overmind One

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Fisher is at peace. It should have been done last Saturday when I went, because last night was a terrible night for both of us. I was literally up all night with him, sleeping on the floor next to him, wiping blood from his mouth, comforting and talking to him. Near the end, all he wanted to do was be with me. He came out of his hiding spot and came to me and crawled into my lap. If I got up to do something, he was trying to get back to me. I took him around his favorite spots outside while holding him in my arms, and he was purring the whole time although I suspect it was the illness he was purring about (cats do that when sick too). I let him and Siete touch noses one last time, and he rode with me uncaged and not in a box or carrier. He managed to crawl into my lap while I was driving, but he was so weak. :(. By the time I got to the vet he was relaxed and ready to go. The whole procedure was peaceful and without incident and I feel I did right by him. And yeah, I cried and cried.

I will miss my funny little cat. And now Siete has me all to himself. I will not be filling Fisher's place with a kitten or another cat. Just me and the old man Siete until his last days. He is healthy and active and I will be seeing that he gets his wellness exams.
 

heisenberg

Earl Grey
I'll be damned, he IS eating. :) He is drinking too. To think that the only difference here was the fact that the dog specialist with cat experience gave a completely different prognosis than the cat specialist with dog experience. It is disturbing. The first doctor knew I had decided to do fluid therapy and was willing to try things, and never suggested the cortisone shot. The cat specialist doctor that refused the euthanasia is the one who gave Fisher the shot and told me to keep up with the fluids until the first bag is gone, and had me buy a second bag as well as gave me the kidney diet he needs to gain his strength back. Now, he is eating and drinking again? I even got happy tail. I will never trust the first doctor again. Fisher was snatched back from death.
It's quite frightening how stupid doctors are. Seriously, I have come across so many that lack critical thinking and just end up prescribing a pill to help solve a problem. To them, they are after numbers and not after providing a duty of care. Not unless you are brave and bold enough to question them which I do ALWAYS!
 

heisenberg

Earl Grey
Fisher is at peace. It should have been done last Saturday when I went, because last night was a terrible night for both of us. I was literally up all night with him, sleeping on the floor next to him, wiping blood from his mouth, comforting and talking to him. Near the end, all he wanted to do was be with me. He came out of his hiding spot and came to me and crawled into my lap. If I got up to do something, he was trying to get back to me. I took him around his favorite spots outside while holding him in my arms, and he was purring the whole time although I suspect it was the illness he was purring about (cats do that when sick too). I let him and Siete touch noses one last time, and he rode with me uncaged and not in a box or carrier. He managed to crawl into my lap while I was driving, but he was so weak. :(. By the time I got to the vet he was relaxed and ready to go. The whole procedure was peaceful and without incident and I feel I did right by him. And yeah, I cried and cried.

I will miss my funny little cat. And now Siete has me all to himself. I will not be filling Fisher's place with a kitten or another cat. Just me and the old man Siete until his last days. He is healthy and active and I will be seeing that he gets his wellness exams.
Ah shit man, that sucks! :(.
 

Overmind One

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Ah shit man, that sucks! :(.

Well, I had him for Thanksgiving, and he was not in pain. He had happy moments all throughout his ordeal, and was loved dearly. So, it's just me and Siete now.
 

heisenberg

Earl Grey
Well, I had him for Thanksgiving, and he was not in pain. He had happy moments all throughout his ordeal, and was loved dearly. So, it's just me and Siete now.
I know but it's quite painful. Cats IMO you develop a special bond. You do the same with dogs, and other animals, but still, I think cats are awesome even though they can be quite assholish lol.
 

Overmind One

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I know but it's quite painful. Cats IMO you develop a special bond. You do the same with dogs, and other animals, but still, I think cats are awesome even though they can be quite assholish lol.

Siete seems happy that Fisher is gone. When I moved to Long Beach and Dante was gone already, Fisher quickly took the Alpha position, and he would sometimes bully Siete who is much much bigger but has a much gentler disposition. Siete became the Beta. Now he is the Alpha again and he does not have to compete with any other cats. Just him and me and he is already playing like a kitten. I haven't seen him have so much fun with a twist tie in a couple of years. :). The cat tunnels used to be his favorite thing before Fisher, but Fisher would not allow Siete to use any of them. Now, he even sleeps in them. Remember, there was a gradual weakening of Fisher, so this was not sudden for Siete.
 

heisenberg

Earl Grey
Siete seems happy that Fisher is gone. When I moved to Long Beach and Dante was gone already, Fisher quickly took the Alpha position, and he would sometimes bully Siete who is much much bigger but has a much gentler disposition. Siete became the Beta. Now he is the Alpha again and he does not have to compete with any other cats. Just him and me and he is already playing like a kitten. I haven't seen him have so much fun with a twist tie in a couple of years. :). The cat tunnels used to be his favorite thing before Fisher, but Fisher would not allow Siete to use any of them. Now, he even sleeps in them. Remember, there was a gradual weakening of Fisher, so this was not sudden for Siete.
This thread needs some cheering up
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Lord Ba'al

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Once again I'm sorry for your loss Overmind. Despite the fact that it totally sucks balls that Fisher ended up going downhill again, I am glad that you did get to spend another week with him. That one week might have been worth more than a year to the two of you. His suffering is over now. I wish you all the strength you need.
 

Overmind One

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Once again I'm sorry for your loss Overmind. Despite the fact that it totally sucks balls that Fisher ended up going downhill again, I am glad that you did get to spend another week with him. That one week might have been worth more than a year to the two of you. His suffering is over now. I wish you all the strength you need.
George, I am very sorry for the loss of your beloved cat.

Thank you very much, it means a lot. :) I gave him enough love to last an eternity. It was very peaceful for both of us.
 

Overmind One

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The bright spot is that Siete seems happy and all of a sudden he is excited about being the only cat. He is exploring, taking over Fisher's old spots, playing in the cat tubes and chasing things around batting them. Before, Fisher would interrupt play by being territorial. Thank goodness he is healthy and happy. :)

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Joelist

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Hi OM!

I'm sorry to hear that Fisher did not make it, but as you said he went well. You have a lot of good times to remember with him too. That's how it has been with me in the past when I had to put a dog down. Not everyone gets it - these cats and dogs are not pets they are family.
 

Overmind One

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Hi OM!

I'm sorry to hear that Fisher did not make it, but as you said he went well. You have a lot of good times to remember with him too. That's how it has been with me in the past when I had to put a dog down. Not everyone gets it - these cats and dogs are not pets they are family.

Well put. :) Thank you very much for your kind words!
 
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